definition: Tidfink

Tidfink

-verb 

1. When an adolescent boy or a middle aged woman* goes through a process of self discovery yet this ends back at the same place as they began, but now in a state of discontentment. Example: "Shelia realized there was more to life than being her brother's secretary and watching soap operas, and for a few weeks she was reading self help books, some philosophy, but in the end she tidfinked and is doing the same things she's been doing for the past eight years, but now she seems so unhappy about it." 
2. To recognize that one dreams bigger than what one is capable of achieving. 

*Special Note: This verb is often criticized by feminists for suggesting that men go through a process of self discovery at an earlier stage of maturity than women.